Sunday, January 31, 2021

NFJG Eagle Harbor Tournament 7th Place

 AA did not have a good round of golf at her home course. The 2nd Hole was really tough, she landed her drive so close to the water, she took a penalty stroke, then hit that ball to the far right, out of bounds, another penalty - so a quad-bogey. Then many "pars" but got back into bogey playing from the 8th hole on, and ended with a double bogey on Hole 18 after her drive went into the woods. Disappointing round as she knows the course and plays nine holes regularly in the 30's. So she either mentally doesn't focus or runs out of steam. Not sure, but we told her we will continue to prod her as long as she is willing to plod along in a positive direction.

At the turn, I ran home to get their raincoats (weather predicted rain in the evening but the clouds looked menacingly! It did not rain until close to midnight). I walked Ginger and we watched AA midway on Hole 11 (AA is the tiny pink speck in the blurry background).
Hole 18:

With her Coach and her practicing continues, we hope our sweet golfer has better results in the near future.

Monday, 01/25/21 - Friday 15 Year LID Anniversary!

Monday, I did a little work, not much as I don't usually work on Monday's and didn't have any new assignments. Ford went grocery shopping as we did plan meals for the rest of the week.
We decided to drive to the River House after AA was with her Coach for a golf lesson, if many cars were there we were not going in (actually, no one goes inside, you walk outside to the river-side deck). Only four members were there, all sitting at the outside bar. We kept our distance with masks on and ordered a drink and took it to a table far away from anyone. It was beautiful, in the mid-70's. We used an alcohol wipe and brought sanitizer too. We felt very safe, comfortable. May do it again when it nice weather and a time when it typically has very few members.
For dinner, I had Ford grill some chicken (frozen raw from our freezer - trying to use up what we have!), glazed with Mia's gift of honey and soy sauce, turned out delicious with my new baby bok choy from the JAX Asian market.
10 Minute Garlic Bok Choy Recipe
1 tbsp vegetable oil
5 cloves garlic (minced)
2 large shallots (minced)
2 pounds baby bok choy (halved or quartered)
2 tbsp soy sauce
1 tsp sesame oil
1 tsp crushed red pepper (optional)
INSTRUCTIONS: Add the oil to a large wok or skillet over medium-high heat. Swirl to coat the entire surface of the pan.  Add the garlic and shallots, stirring continuously for 1-2 minutes, or until fragrant.
Add the bok choy, soy sauce, and sesame oil. Toss to coat and cover. Cook for 1-2 minutes, uncover and toss, and then cover and continue to cook until bok choy is cooked to desired doneness (approximately 3-5 minutes more). Sprinkle with crushed red pepper and serve immediately.

Tuesday: I worked a few hours, AA was in school (scored a 100 on her Spanish test). We took down the Christmas icicle lights on our back deck (great for night-light when taking the dog out for her late night potty break). I made traditional pot roast in the crock-pot (with carrots, onions and potatoes). AA putting for par:
Wednesday: 01/27/2006 -  01/27/2021 - 15 year anniversary of our LID - Logged in Date to China - means all our paperwork was sent to China (notarized, translated, reviewed by CCAI, etc.). Took us six months to gather all the documents, write our history and why we wanted a daughter, gathered three references, and more.
I worked at the JEA NGS office and then spent the night at Carolyn's. We enjoyed a Mexican dinner called Shrimp Florentine I have had for lunch in the past. It was yummy and enough leftover for lunch on Thursday.
Thursday: I drove to NGS office again and had a great day until about 2 p.m. when my JEA laptop decided to crash with my two latest excel files I was working on. Horrible! I drove home and tried to make up for the work lost. AA had a golf lesson and we enjoyed a salmon dinner cooked by Ford!
My Mom sent me a huge jug of maple syrup! Great family gift!
And Ford cooked blackened salmon for dinner, a favorite:
Friday: I worked until 3:00 p.m. then went to BJ's with Carolyn.
Saturday, made a clafoutis with three berries, always delicious with maple syrup.
And made the mango salsa for AA while she practiced golfing.
Leaa sent us a photo of Dylan after she returned for drama try-outs for middle school (she will be rising up to 6th grade). Ford says she favors his Uncle Jack, so some of the Morgan is showing up in her! She's beautiful!
Carolyn stayed for dinner, Ford made a spaghetti pie with salad. All good! She went home and gained an outside cat that had been abandoned in her neighborhood.
And now a few political memes to end the week, one is humorous using the "f" word, so pardon my bad taste.

Sunday, January 24, 2021

January Marches on.

Thursday, 21st was a happy day, re-watching the inauguration events, seeing President Biden get to work, swearing in his staff, having the first Cabinet member confirmation beginning. So much excitement.

AA got her new bike, only rode it once so far, first time with bike with the hand brakes, we have always had bikes using our feet to brake the bike.

I worked on the DD Initiative for a few hours. We took a smoked turkey breast to Larry and Charlotte, hope they enjoy. We ate our smoked turkey breast meal with leftovers for dinner.

Friday, I went to work in the NGS office for a few hours, answered some JEA emails and typed up my notes from the DD Initiative. I stopped by Carolyn's on the way home with lunch from Pollo Tropical (like their tropi-chop bowls). Carolyn had never eaten at Pollo. It is pretty good for healthy fast food (drive-thru was fast). 

It was a rainy day (sprinkles all day) so we stayed in and watched two movies: My Month with Mrs. Potter (about a criminal who burglarizes the home of Mrs. Potter and how she befriends him rather than calling the cops) and Hope Gap (Hope Gap filmed in Leeds and Doncaster and the eponymous Hope Gap, Seaford in Sussex in 2018, Grace lives an idyllic life in a British seaside town, but her world soon comes crashing down when her husband of 29 years tells her he's leaving her for another woman. Through stages of shock, disbelief and anger -- and with support from her son -- Grace ultimately regains her footing). 

Both movies were good enough, Hope gap was a bit depressing about the marriage ending and Mrs. Potter is dying of cancer and catches a thief, so not much happiness at the beginning of that movie either.

I ordered a baby shower gift (baby play mat with activity gym) for Cara and Travis, she is due mid-March. No in-person shower, Leaa's invitation stated getting together is difficult, so mail a card or gift and they will feel your love from far away. Very nice!

Saturday: No golf tournament this weekend.
I took a few deviled eggs to Kathy and she gave us a Gator jacket for AA! And it fits!
ZOOM! With Kathy's cat too.
So many Bernie memes!!
5:00 p.m. Happy Hour. Talked about the Senate filibuster, the inauguration festivities, celebrities and events, plus movies, etc. We watched The Hundred-Foot Journey about two restaurants, their competition and budding romances during the feuding.
The Kadam family leaves India for France where they open a restaurant directly across the road from Madame Mallory's Michelin-starred eatery.
Sunday: I made orange cranberry scones for breakfast, along with bacon, pomegranate seeds and an Asian pear given to us by Angel's family (they gave us food and the pears as a thank you for taking Angel to the Ridgeview IB program). 
Recipe:
Our "drive to nowhere" was to the JAX Asian Market near Mandarin. We shopped for a few Chinese foods and CNY items (didn't buy any). We saw the same pears given to us:
Bought baby bok choy for dinner this week.
Then we drove to Ancient Brewery at highway 16/I-95. Enjoyed two brews while eating Five Guy hamburgers for lunch. Ford enjoyed a new beer "Left Turn on Red" and I still like the Anastasia Island IPA. Then drove home!
Watching the NFL AFC and NFC pre-show.
AA's new school schedule (plus her two CVA classes she works at her own pace):

Wednesday, January 20, 2021

Sunday + Monday's NFJG Tournament + Inauguration Day!

Sunday was another lazy day. We enjoyed the morning, breakfast, then decided to drive to the local Barnes and Noble book store. AA bought the book Hamlet: No Fear Shakespeare (Student Edition). She's enjoying reading it as it has plain English translations. I bought two books, first I am reading Pete's - Trust.

We ordered and picked up V-Pizza: chicken wings, Caprese salad and the Veloce Salad (spring mix, tomato, gorgonzola cheese, roasted red pepper, mushroom, red onion, carrot, creamy gorgonzola dressing) for AA. With two football games on this evening, we will be enjoying a slow Sunday.

Monday: MLK Jr. Day:

AA played in the Ponte Vedra Open at Marsh Landing, Ponte Vedra Beach, FL. She had not played this golf course, so as I say, you're playing blind. You don't know where the hazards are, selecting the right club for the distance and layout of the course, just a feeling of a shot in the dark. She played 11 holes well, then on Hole 12 went four over, then two more holes with double bogeys. Still she played it, it was a challenge.

From Jack's Newsletter: In the “Elite Tour Girls” Division Jacksonville’s Madison Balaskiewicz took the top spot with a score of 80 showing why she is one of the twenty plus players on the NFJG TOUR Ryder Cup Team heading to Miami come April to take on the “Gold Coast Junior Golf Foundation”. This was Balaskiewicz’s second win this season and fourth since she has been on tour. Jacksonville’s Annabelle Mozingo (82) took the Silver Medal and Port Orange’s Tylar Ann Whiting (84) took the third spot.

I worked a few hours with Chuck at the ICT building, learning the D&D Initiative. After that, I stopped at Carolyn's and helped her chop vegetables for her homemade chicken soup. I came home and had lunch, washed dishes, walked Ginger, read emails and finally sat down with a cup of leftover coffee and read a few pages my new book - Pete Buttigieg, Trust.

Tuesday was a quiet day, I worked from home, attending a couple of APTIM on-line meetings.
We watched: The Presidential Inaugural Committee will host a memorial to remember and honor the lives lost to COVID-19 in cities and towns across the country. A Washington, D.C. ceremony will feature a lighting around the Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool. We are inviting cities and towns across the country to join Washington, D.C. in illuminating buildings and ringing church bells at 5:30 p.m. ET in a national moment of unity and remembrance.
Wednesday - INAUGURATION DAY!!! What an exciting event to watch on TV, the preliminary news coverage, the swearing ceremony with the wonderful agenda, who will ever forget Lady Gaga, Jennifer Lopez, Garth Brooks. And we remember what gracious out-going President Obama was in 2017......... 
End of an ERROR!
And women wore their pearls!
Harris attended Howard University as an undergraduate where she was a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha, the nation's oldest Black sorority. The pearls are a direct connection to her sorority, a symbol of unity and sisterhood for Alpha Kappa Alpha. “I equated the pearls to women (because) we go through a lot of things, but we still come out shining,” Aloaye, a 46-year-old veteran in Orange Park, Florida, said. “Pearls are every color, shape, size. It doesn’t matter. ... I just thought that was a beautiful thing.” When Hope Aloaye started a Facebook group to encourage women to wear pearls to celebrate the upcoming inauguration of the first female vice president of the United States, she didn’t realize that the accessory has a special significance to former Sen. Kamala Harris.
Aloaye told TODAY that she gravitated toward pearls because she sees them as an expression of female strength, not knowing that the sorority Harris joined in college, Alpha Kappa Alpha, has a similar mentality. It refers to its founders as the “Twenty Pearls” and calls its 290,000 worldwide members “pearls.” The vice president-elect has also been pictured numerous times wearing pearls in different styles. #ChucksandPearls
The proceedings will begin with an invocation by the Rev. Leo J. O'Donovan, a Jesuit priest who is the former president of Georgetown University and a close friend of the Biden family. Andrea Hall, the first African American female firefighter to become captain of the Fire Rescue Department in South Fulton, Georgia, will recite the Pledge of Allegiance.
Amanda Gorman, who became the country's first Youth Poet Laureate in 2017, will read a poem she has written for the occasion called "The Hill We Climb." Like Biden, Gorman had a speech impediment that she has worked hard to overcome. 
As is tradition, the Supreme Court's chief justice, John Roberts, will administer the oath of office to Biden just after the clock strikes 12. Biden will take the oath with his hand on top of his 127-year-old, 5-inch-thick family Bible, which will be held by his wife, Jill Biden.
Harris, the first woman, the first Black American and the first South Asian American vice president, will be sworn in by Justice Sonia Sotomayor, the first Latina member of the Supreme Court. Like Harris, Sotomayor is a former prosecutor. Sotomayor has experience swearing in vice presidents — she administered the oath to Biden as vice president in 2013. Harris will be sworn in on two Bibles — one that belonged to a close family friend named Regina Shelton and another that belonged to Thurgood Marshall. Harris has hailed Marshall, the country's first African American Supreme Court justice, as one of her heroes.
Celebrating America in the evening: The event is being hosted by Academy Award winner Tom Hanks, and Eva Longoria and Kerry Washington will introduce segments of the special, which will include "stories of young people making a difference in their communities." Scheduled performers include rock legend Bruce Springsteen, Foo Fighters, John Legend, Jon Bon Jovi, Justin Timberlake, Demi Lovato, Ant Clemons, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Tim McGraw and Tyler Hubbard. The inaugural committee said they will perform from "iconic locations across the country." The 90-minute telecast will also feature remarks from Biden and Harris.
From the agenda: President-elect Biden and Vice President-elect Harris will be sworn in on the West front of the U.S. Capitol building. After they take their oaths of office, President-elect Biden will deliver an inaugural address laying out his vision to defeat the pandemic, build back better, and unify and heal the nation. Following the ceremony, the President-elect, First Lady, Vice President-elect, and Second Gentleman will participate in a Pass in Review on the East front with members of the military. Pass in Reviews are a long-standing military tradition that reflect the peaceful transfer of power to a new Commander-in-Chief. 
The President-elect, Dr. Biden, the Vice President-elect, and Mr. Emhoff will visit Arlington National Cemetery to lay a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. They will be joined by President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama, President George W. Bush and Laura Bush, and President Bill Clinton and Secretary Hillary Clinton.
Lastly, we watched the entire "Celebrating America", wonderful show with regular people, music and Tom Hanks as emcee.

Amanda Gorman - The Hill We Climb - Poet Laureate - Inauguration Day

Amanda Gorman, the youngest inaugural poet ever and the first person to be named national youth poet laureate — a position she achieved as a 19-year-old sophomore at Harvard University.

Ms. Gorman wrote the 723-word piece expressly for the event, telling the New York Times that she aspired to neither erase nor neglect the harsh truths the country must reconcile, but to use her words “to envision a way in which our country can still come together and can still heal.”

When day comes we ask ourselves, where can we find light in this never-ending shade? The loss we carry, a sea we must wade. We’ve braved the belly of the beast. We’ve learned that quiet isn’t always peace. In the norms and notions of what just is isn’t always justice.

And yet, the dawn is ours before we knew it. Somehow, we do it. Somehow, we’ve weathered and witnessed a nation that isn’t broken, but simply unfinished. We, the successors of a country and a time where a skinny Black girl descended from slaves and raised by a single mother can dream of becoming president, only to find herself reciting for one.

And yes, we are far from polished, far from pristine, but that doesn’t mean we are striving to form a union that is perfect. We are striving to forge our union with purpose, to compose a country committed to all cultures, colors, characters and conditions of man.

And so, we lift our gazes not to what stands between us, but what stands before us. We close the divide because we know, to put our future first, we must first put our differences aside. We lay down our arms so we can reach out our arms to one another. We seek harm to none and harmony for all. Let the globe, if nothing else, say this is true. That even as we grieved, we grew. That even as we hurt, we hoped; that even as we tired, we tried; that we’ll forever be tied together, victorious. Not because we will never again know defeat, but because we will never again sow division.

Scripture tells us to envision that everyone shall sit under their own vine and fig tree, and no one shall make them afraid. If we’re to live up to our own time, then victory won’t lie in the blade, but in all the bridges we’ve made. That is the promise to glade, the hill we climb if only we dare it. Because being American is more than a pride we inherit; it’s the past we step into and how we repair it. We’ve seen a forest that would shatter our nation rather than share it, would destroy our country if it meant delaying democracy. And this effort very nearly succeeded.

But while democracy can be periodically delayed, it can never be permanently defeated. In this truth, in this faith we trust, for while we have our eyes on the future, history has its eyes on us. This is the era of just redemption. We feared it at its inception. We did not feel prepared to be the heirs of such a terrifying hour, but within it, we found the power to author a new chapter, to offer hope and laughter to ourselves.

So, while once we asked: “How could we possibly prevail over catastrophe?” Now we assert, “How could catastrophe possibly prevail over us?”

We will not march back to what was, but move to what shall be: a country that is bruised, but whole; benevolent, but bold; fierce and free. We will not be turned around or interrupted by intimidation, because we know our inaction and inertia will be the inheritance of the next generation. Our blunders become their burdens. But one thing is certain, if we merge mercy with might, and might with right, then love becomes our legacy, and change our children’s birthright.

So, let us leave behind a country better than one we were left. With every breath from my bronze-pounded chest, we will raise this wounded world into a wondrous one. We will rise from the gold-limned hills of the West. We will rise from the wind-swept Northeast where our forefathers first realized revolution. We will rise from the lake-rimmed cities of the Midwestern states. We will rise from the sun-baked South. We will rebuild, reconcile and recover in every known nook of our nation, in every corner called our country our people diverse and beautiful will emerge battered and beautiful.

When day comes, we step out of the shade aflame and unafraid. The new dawn blooms as we free it. For there is always light. If only we’re brave enough to see it. If only we’re brave enough to be it.

— Amanda Gorman’s “The Hill We Climb,” as recited at the inauguration of President Joe Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris

Saturday, January 16, 2021

Week of January 11th - Saturday 16th + Recipes

Monday: So much news about who should be removed from office (in the Senate and House) who incited violence, 25th Amendment to remove Trump, impeachment proceedings, trying to put the terrorists on a no-fly list from the airlines, motion to make it illegal to put Trump's name on any public building, etc... Our government has a lot of work to do to get rid of traitors, rid of those saying the election was fraud (each individual State certified the votes so why not work at the State level - oh, he did try with over 60+ lawsuits, no major or minor fraud discovered). We cannot have government employees, elected officials represent citizens who have been party to the President's lies, bullying, unspeakable undermining of democracy. It is sickening! 

And to back up a week, to Monday, the 4th, we got the call from Mom about Nana Barbara passing the night before, Sunday the 3rd. Aunt Patti is coping well and handling everything, sent her roses in memory of her mom. Love to our Maine family.

AA is in school all this week, with a half day on Friday to end the grading semester. She had her golf lesson on Monday and her Thursday lesson was changed to Friday afternoon.

Tuesday: I worked my last two days in the JEA NGS office. Got everything done except some confusion about a mowing bid in purchasing, I wrote a couple of emails and spoke to a few people, but not my place to get involved directly with Facilities and Purchasing. Someone else needs to step in and take charge. 
John Reid, Paul Smith and Jay Worley were texting "SJRPP Memories" from 12/30/20 - 01/13/21; this photo we think is from 1998 (Marmaduke Award - Power Magazine?). Larry Bradley, Bud Para, Paul Smith, Jay Worley and Jim Jackson.
01/13/21: SJRPP flag pavilion in front of the Service building (#5). Demolition is almost complete, a few more months to remove below-ground concrete and remaining scrap.
Wednesday: Worked until 4:30 then went to Carolyn's. Cooked brown rice shrimp and avocado bowl (recipe below). Ford cooked burgers for their dinner.
Thursday: Came home from Carolyn's. Worked from home with APTIM D&D team. Made brown rice shrimp and avocado bowl as we liked it the night before.
Shrimp with lemon avocado and brown rice:
Carolyn made these delicious chocolate, oatmeal, peanut butter cookies!
Ideas for CNY activities:
I continue to walk Ginger twice a day when I am home:
Friday: Planned to work with Chuck at the ICT Building, but rescheduled to Monday. Half day of school for AA. She golfed and I did a little practice. 
We ate leftovers for dinner, smoked turkey with BBQ, cole slaw and beans.
Saturday: AA was invited to an escape room with the Bailey's. So glad AA had some fun!
Afterwards, they were explaining how they got a slow start but then halfway through ended up being fun even though they "died", didn't make it off the island, or out of the room.
We joined the River House Happy Hour Zoom at 5:00 p.m. with Hugh, Maureen and Penny (Kathy's son was in town). We spoke mainly about getting vaccine shots (Penny and I do not have shot 1 yet). And for dinner, we made a new recipe of Chicken Cacciatore, very good (from Delish dot com, in the slow cooker, served over linguine). We did leave the lid off for an hour to evaporate some of the liquid and added black olives to Ford and AA's plates:
Still very cold mornings (30's) and windy, cool afternoons, pretty good for winter weather!